Reaching Out Spring 2003

Strong families make strong communities

Parenting Class Provides Positive Results

A NEW Parenting class was taught last semester, which produced some very positive outcomes! The course was taught by Bert Anderson and Barb Cassady using the book; Children: The Challenge, by Rudolf Preikurs, M.D. with Vicki Soltz, R.N.

Though the class was small, (there were only five dedicated students) it turned out big changes! At a recent ‘class reunion’ graduates shared some of their successes. Two of the students tried the Family Meeting for the first time and found them to be very useful. All of the students said they were eliminating the "yelling" in their homes and that as a result cooperation was increasing.

"I feel more in control since taking the class, relates Anna . By understanding what motivates children to behave or misbehave, I can respond appropriately. Teaching natural consequences really helps the children understand why a behavior is inappropriate."

Rachelle related that her overall family environment is happy and calm now. "Everyone feels respected and loved. We work as a team and it is so nice. I can’t wait to see the adults that my children will become!"

Margarita was impressed with the results she saw in her children while she was taking the course. "The children did not want to stay in the play room provided by Home Management and I ended up taking care of all three of them in the classroom, says Margarita. Bert, and Barb, encouraged me to ignore their crying and not to give into the power struggle. By the third class they were no longer crying and in fact enjoyed their time playing while I was able to concentrate on the material being presented."

One of the most exciting outcomes of the Positive Parenting class is that Margarita will be starting a weekly call-in radio program about parenting. The show will be presented in Spanish, which Margarita says is much needed in our community. Her husband will be helping her in this venture.

"The class has helped me realize that there is more harmony when there is less yelling, states Nellie. This is a wonderful class with wonderful instructors. There has been so much that I have learned and am practicing. Thanks for all of your support and love!"

The next Positive Parenting class will begin Wednesday, March 12, 2003 and runs for eight weeks. Among the topics covered are; Understanding your children - Sidestep the Struggle for Power; Eliminate Criticism and Minimize Mistakes; Win Cooperation; The Fallacy of Punishment and Reward; The Family Meeting and Follow Through - Be Consistent.

space is limited so call today to reserve your seat!

CALL (574)-233-3486

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